mandatory disclaimer *
i want everyone to understand is that i am disabled with severe asthma, autism, adhd, and extreme social anxiety. i experience symptoms similar to chronic fatigue due to asthma & burnout, have a very limited social battery, and get overwhelmed very quickly. i am very slow with any type of interaction, be it threads, asks, or even just IMs or discord messages. please keep this in mind.i try my best to reach out to others, but it can be incredibly difficult for me. it can take me a long time to approach others, even if i know that i have permission to. i apologise, and promise i am not trying to ignore anyone. i try my best to make all of my mutuals feel included, but it can be extremely hard for me to do so constantly. if i follow you, i am interested in interacting. if you are comfortable enough to jump start interactions, here is a small guide on how to do so, but as long as you like my interactions call or fill out my interest checker, i will do my very very best to get to you at some point. i just cannot promise that i will be very fast.while the rest of these rules aren’t necessary to read in their entirety, but i would really appreciate it if you at least skimmed. i've bolded the important parts for easy skimming.
quick general info *
i use the beta text editor and xkit rewritten
i write a LOT, so please don't feel pressured to match my length.
linking me to posts i'm @'d in is very helpful. if i didn't like it, i probably didn't see it.
i only tag spoilers from new releases, and will likely stop tagging them within a two months (unless specifically requested by a mutual)
i won't follow if you aren't 18+ with a name/alias & pronouns easily findable on your blog/pages. i may block over this information being absent. i'm not comfortable without this basic information
i personally don't have mains/exclusives/etc. i don't mind if you do! i just don't want to feel restrained or obligated to prioritize anyone in particular. if you want to list me as any of that, feel free to ask, i usually don't mind!
i'm against sending 'rules passwords'. if i follow you and you require this, feel free to block me, and feel free to ask why i feel this way in private if you would like.
do not call me 'buddy', 'pal', 'friend' etc unless you actually consider me a friend. i'm autistic and take those words extremely literally. please don't lead me on, intentionally or otherwise.
don't assume things without asking me. communicate, please don't lie to me, etc.
blog/muse specific rules are at the bottom of this page
tagging, blocking, safety & comfort *
no proshipping, no pokephilia, no incest, no racism, no homophobia, no transphobia, no discrimination in general, no using ai to write replies or make images, etc. please just don't be gross.i don't condone drama (personal OR rp related) or "callout culture." unless someone is actually dangerous, this isn't the place for that. in the case something is actually serious, i'd really like for things to be tagged, so i don't see serious allegations without being fully prepared. i may block over participation in drama, untagged callouts, or vague posting of any sort.don’t reblog/reply to my roleplays if you aren’t involved with them. this goes for both rp and non rp blogs. i often block personal blogs that interact with my posts, so if you have a rp sideblog please inform me so i don't block you by mistake. if you're a rp blog or personal blog with a rp sideblog, you're always free to like any of my posts and i will never be annoyed.sometimes i soft block people i haven't interacted with because i often get overwhelmed with the amount of activity on my dashboard. if this happens, you are always welcome to refollow and/or reach out to me about why i softed! i will not softblock anyone who says in their rules that they don't want me to do that without asking first if it's ok that i break mutuals, though!please tag all nsfw content if we are mutuals. i may softblock over seeing a lot of untagged nsfw. there will be absolutely no sexual content on my blog. shipping is okay as long as we discuss it ooc first and it's not forced on me, though i am far less likely to ship muses that i headcanon as on the aromantic spectrum, so please respect that.my memory is not the best, so if i break a rule by mistake, or make you uncomfortable in any way, please let me know so i can do my best to correct myself. i am not a mind reader, and am typically very socially naive/unaware due to my autism.
interactions and replies *
if you want to write with me you can always ask! please just keep in mind that i mostly only rp with mutual and may ignore questions or requests from people i am not mutuals with.i will not interact with you if you: age up child characters for the purpose of shipping with an adult character (be it sexual or otherwise), age up a character for the purpose of writing nsfw threads/headcanons for them, 'selfship'/'yumeship' yourself with a character who is a minor (no matter how old you make your self insert), etc. calling a character 'canon divergent' is not workaround for any of these. self inserts/ocs in the place of protagonists are fine as long as you don't refer to them as a version of the original character in any way.i will also not write with people who use an excessive amount of uncredited art with no intention of correcting this in the immediate future.there is never a time limit on my rps. i'm always open to continuing rps, and do not typically do 'blog events'. please reply to whatever you want whenever you want, no matter how much (or little) time has passed. similarly, please don't rush me for replies. feel free to ask about a reply if it's been a while if you're worried i didn't see it, however!never feel obligated to continue a thread with me if you don't want to/aren't feeling it. if you want to drop something, feel free to let me know so i can archive it on my thread tracker, but telling me is not mandatory.ask replies + prompts are always free to continue, so feel free to continue anything you’d like.i don't do "exclusives". i will write with all versions of a muse without any disparity, treating them as canon within our threads unless otherwise requested/stated. i'm also willing to make compromises with my characters' backstories and/or headcanons if need be for any reason.i’ll generally rp with most characters from any media i recognise, but generally won’t rp with characters i don’t recognise unless previously discussed. however, i will not rp with characters from the following medias AT ALL without previous discussion- helluva boss, hazbin hotel, monster hunter, hetalia rwby, my little pony, homestuck, enstars, demon slayer, bugsnax, fate/grand order, twisted wonderland, any mihoyo games, arknights, most gatcha games in general, inazuma eleven, god eater, hero academia, trigun, most animanga in general (aside from pokemon, digimon, medabots, yugioh, and possibly more. please ask if you're not sure). this is due to my own personal comfort, and i apologise. please don't be discouraged about this however- just ask before approaching me and i may be comfortable after talking. it's really case by case with most of these series.
muse/fandom specific rules *
for zim and gir's blog @doomdoomdoomdoomdoomdoomdoomdoom: there will be absolutely NO shipping zim with ANY human. zim is over 160 in human years. he is an adult by his species' standards, even though he doesn't act like it. it's very unlikely for me to ship him romantically in general, and any relationship with him would almost definitely NOT be healthy. gir is a child and won't be shipped at all. please block me if you ship zim with gaz, dib, or gir, as i am not comfortable around any of these ships.
for emmet's blog @downtrain: please block me if you self/yumeship yourself with both twins at the same time. don't be weird about sibling stuff- twins & close in age siblings both fictional and irl are often subjected to weird fantasization and fetishization that is really dehumanizing. as someone who was close with my sibling irl and in school with her at the same time, we've had a LOT of people be weird and gross to/about us, so that's a huge pet peeve of mine and makes me super uncomfortable. so please just don't be weird/gross.for iono's blog @ionozoned; please refrain from making overly sexual comments about her ic or ooc. i am incredibly sex repulsed, so please just try to avoid this. if you are worried about what may or may not cross a line, just ask in advance and i will let you know. i am especially against ic or ooc jokes or comments about "loli", "lolita", "barely legal", etc in reference to iono looking young. any of this will get an immediate block.for private multi blog @cgear: i am extremely selective on this blog. i'm very insecure about these muses and not completely comfortable writing them unless i personally know you, so please don't be offended if i don't follow back. you can feel free to follow my more public pokemon muses and maybe i'll get to know you a bit better. do NOT ask me to follow you if i have not. this will receive an instant block.
for neku's blog @shibuyacrossed; i have an extremely high preference for 15 year old, post twewy/pre-neo neku, and will typically default to him unless writing with neo specific muses, or if specifically requested. though i am multiship, i will not be writing romantic nekushiki with anyone who isn’t groovepawn, sorry! platonic stuff is always welcome, i've just been writing nekushiki with mandi for 10+ years and it'd feel weird with anyone else.for all twewy blogs; if you write nsfw with any of the original twewy kids please tag it or keep it under a cut. i'd appreciate it if nsfw could be tagged in general, but as someone in my late 20's it's super uncomfortable seeing nsfw of 18 year old characters who are very much still kids from my point of view, and i might soft/hard block if i see this a lot.
if we are mutuals, you are always free to interact with me in any of the following ways! links to calls, memes, etc mentioned below are always in my blogs' pinned posts.
(01). filling out the interest trackers on my blogs(02). reminding me that it is okay to approach you by liking or replying to my general interactions calls. (unliking and re-liking as a gentle reminder is absolutely fine, and will not annoy or upset me! i have extreme anxiety, so it's nice to be reminded that i have permission to interact, though this is not a prerequisite for me interacting in general.)(03). sending me an in character ask- includes both ask memes and unprompted asks. you're also free to send me any sentence starter you see on your dash/your own blog, even if i haven't reblogged it, as long as it's not inappropriate (example: nsfw ask memes). prompts on my blog never have an expiration date, and i am always accepting all of them.(04). writing me an unprompted starter by @ing me in a post. if you've written me a starter and you feel like i haven't seen it, feel free to ask me about it/remind me, since tumblr notifications can be wonky sometimes.(05). interacting with an inbox call or any starter/interaction calls i may post in the future.(06). messaging me on tumblr or discord to plot or talk about our muses. (mutuals can feel free to ask for my discord at any point)